Thread:BrutaLity/@comment-24820384-20150221212130/@comment-5952365-20150222221002

@Pitsla But I still don't see what hateful comments she has. There's a thin line between hating and giving an opinion, but there is one, example:

"I really don't like this character, they're annoying."

and

"I HATE THIS CHARACTER!! ANYONE WHO LIKES THEM IS STUPID!!"

With the first one, while someone who likes said character might be mad someone else doesn't, it's still respectful, they're not calling anyone out, and not over exaggerating about what they think. The second one is calling out everyone who likes the character ("Anyone who likes them is stupid") and therefore, being disrespectful. I don't see how BrutaLity was like the second. And besides, it's not wrong to have a different opinion.

Another example is that I ship Jelsa, but one of my friends ships Helsa, she could always say that Jelsa is stupid and so are the people who ship it, but she doesn't. She's always respectful, and so am I, so there's no problem with our different opinions on who Elsa should be with.

It's okay, and like I said before, this is a common mistake, but a mistake nonetheless.

Now, to get more technical, the meaning of flaming is: Flaming is a hostile and insulting interaction between Internet users, often involving the use of profanity. from Wikipedia

I didn't find her hostile or insulting and she didn't use any profanity.

Flaming is the act of posting or sending offensive messages over the Internet. from techterms.com

Again, I wasn't offended at all.

'' 'Flaming', or 'to flame', means to attack someone verbally online. Flaming entails insults, bigotry, name-calling, or any outright hostility directed at a specific person. Often, flaming is the result of a heated difference of opinions on a topic, and it has devolved into childish bickering. '' from netforbeginners.about.com

I didn't feel attacked, there were no insults, bigotry, name-calling or hostility from BrutaLity. We did have different opinions, but there was no "childish bickering".

From the same link (netforbeginners.about.com): ''There are cases where someone is a repeat flamer: he/she insists on regularly attacking others as a daily habit. If so, we then call that person an Internet troll.''

She didn't attack me, and she's not a troll.

Now, I think I've showed enough links and definitions to prove that she is not a flamer, but if not, I can get more.

@BrutaLity I know, but again, it's a very common mistake on every Wiki (at least every Wiki I've seen) for an Admin to let their own personal feelings about a User get in the way of tact and logic. I've been where you are now (thankfully they left the Wiki though, so I'm not anymore) and I know it sucks. A lot. But that's also another reason I'm here, I don't want the same thing that happened to me because of a faulty Admin happen to someone else.