Talk:Queen Elsa of Arendelle/@comment-99.171.141.216-20140226224300

Well, besides the huge ship war that’s been going on that’s really turned me off to the idea? I really just cannot see it. I’m kind of okay with it being a brotp  type thing, but romantically it makes zero sense to me. Their personalities clash in my head. Elsa is reserved and mature, and Jack is wild and childish and definitely not mature (most of the time). And I really can’t see Elsa being pulled in by his personality at all. I feel like she’d get annoyed with him, like a little brother. From what I’ve seen, the only reason they’re paired together is because they both have ice powers, look alike, and spent the majority of their lives in isolation. To me, that doesn’t constitute a romantic relationship. I’ve heard that some people think that Jack could coax Elsa out of her shell and help her have fun and discover her inner child and all that, and while that’s true, it doesn’t mean they’d be romantically attracted to one another. And then there’s the fact that Elsa is 21 and Jack is stuck physically and mentally at 17-18 ish , and I’m one of those people who can’t do ships where the girl is older than the guy (at least not by that much).

Bottom line, Elsa is a lady and has more of an adult mindset. Jack is reckless and juvenile (for the most part). I believe I saw a comment on a post written by sophiefarts , in which she made a fantastic point: Elsa is not some teenager who would fall head over heels in love with a boy. IF  she ever had a romantic relationship (and that’s a big IF), I think it would be something subtle and would happen slowly. You know, like she and her lover would have more of a political and reserved relationship, less ruled by overwhelming feelings and infatuation and mushy stuff, and would occur as a slow, drawn-out process in which Elsa realizes that she is attracted to a certain person and keeps her affections to restrained actions. Meanwhile, if Jack was to fall in love, I can’t see it happening in that way at all. He’s an impulsive teenager, and I think he would fall in love like one. Which would be overwhelming and ultimately a turn-off for Elsa. I also don’t really think they have character traits and personalities that would be romantically appealing to each other.

Well. I could write more on the subject but I should probably stop here